Sunday 27 April 2014

Judging people

Hair dye

I don't get why people who dye their hair get accused of looking for attention, can somebody please explain that to me?
How do you know what's going through their mind when they dye their hair? You don't. Only the person who has dyed their hair knows why they have done it, maybe they didn't like their natural  hair colour, maybe they want to look more unique and dye it an unusual colour. I have dyed my hair, I've been dying it for four years and I've been bright colours and natural colours, I've also been accused of trying to be someone else by dying my hair a similar colour to theirs. Maybe I just liked the colour, they didn't know what was going through my head when I dyed it, they shouldn't have accused me of copying somebody else when i dye my hair to be my own person. I do not and never will want to be somebody else, I will also never copy anybody else in order to be like them . There are thousands of people with similar hair colours and yet if it's not dyed a natural colour you're begging for attention.  They're just expressing them self through their hair.
If you saw a person with bright pink hair walking down the street you would stare at them more than you would a person with natural brown hair. If you saw a person with massive roots you would stare at them more than you would a person who has no roots and during that time while you were staring at them you would be judging them. Yes I know judging people is a bad thing to do but everybody does it. If I dyed my hair a different colour every week and it started to fall out, you would judge me. People get told lots of bad things about dying their hair because some people do not like it when people dye their hair, nobody ever gets told good things about dying their hair, it gives you character, it makes you unique and it can make you happy being your own person. You will get refused jobs in posh places because having unusual hair colours are "childish". If you let people do what they want and stop judging them for expressing them self the world will be a happier place!

Body piercings

From what I've heard so far people who get body piercings are all "going through a phase"  they're not aloud to get piercings without parent supervision until they're 18 to make sure they're not going through a phase. The only acceptable piercings to get are the ones in your ears. If you get them anywhere else it's unacceptable. If you get a belly bar it's classed as "slutty" and like you're begging for attention, if you get them on your face you're "ruining the way you look" if you get stretchers on your ears you are "ruining your body" because they will never heal. You will get refused jobs  if you  have them on your face or on an area of your body which is on show. People look down on people who have piercings because people judge you for no reason! I'm sorry if this has put you off getting body piercings. If you do want them get them though, you shouldn't care what other people think of you. I'm my person opinion piercings are a good way of expressing yourself and some of them are quite nice.

Tattoos

People who have tattoos are just painting their body with memories and get they're classed as "bad" and "disgusting" but if somebody carried a diary around with them it would be classed as "cute" and a "good idea" even though diaries can get lost and rewind. People who get tattoos are smart not stupid as most people think they are. If you get tattoos on parts of your body which you can see with clothes on you will get refused jobs and it will be seen as fine because people with tattoos aren't as good as people who don't have them. When tbh if you want a tattoo get one. It's your life and you can do whatever you want. Nobody can tell you that it's wrong because there is no wrong or right. If you're considering getting a tattoo just do it because if you don't you will regret it and you can always get them removed if you don't like them that much.

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